My prayer for my courageous, funny and exuberant son on his 6th birthday

Lord, I had expected my life to be different when I had kids, but I never imagined how much my son would change me.  I didn’t realize how the instant I saw Joey, I’d gain a whole new understanding of your love for me.  I didn’t understand the depth of protectiveness, of passion, of hope and of joy that Joey would bring into my life.  I didn’t know that his being would affect my being so deeply, so wholly, so intensely.

But Lord, in one moment, six years ago, I was changed.  I hadn’t been sure I wanted kids just yet.  I didn’t know what to do with a baby.  I didn’t have a clue how to be a mom.  But when they laid my sweet baby boy in my arms, my heart ached—not with pain, but with awe.  He was beautiful—perfect, whole, amazing.  And you had chosen him for me.  I am so blessed.

Lord, I know you have a plan for Joey this year and I thank you for giving me the chance to watch your amazing work has it unfolds in him.  Lord, protect him.  Protect him physically, emotionally and spiritually.  Help him to grow and thrive in Your love and care and in the warm embrace of our family.  Lord, as he grows, help me to know what to say and how to act so that I never cause him to stumble.  Give me the grace to be the mom he needs—and the courage to stand for you even when it’s difficult.

Thank you, Lord, for blessing me with my smart, funny, creative, passionate and exuberant son.  Help me to never forget that he belongs to You and that you love him with a love that goes beyond even my own.  How safe I feel knowing that my children– my precious treasures– are in the arms of their Father.  Thank you for that hope– and I pray that Joey (and Kate and Will) — never, ever for one moment doubt that hope.

Amen

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From the cutest Turkey Trotters around…

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Did anyone else watch Parenthood last week?

If not, Christina, mom of three and five weeks post-partum if feeling totally alone and unappreciated as she juggles three kids, a house in the sleep-deprived newborn state.  She decides to plan a family night—where the whole family can get away and reconnect, but as they drive to go mini-golfing, the kids start complaining, her husband isn’t being supportive and she loses it.  She ends up telling her husband to pull over, kicks her older kids and husband out of the car and drives off, leaving them to walk home.

Crazy, right?

Ummm, not so much.

In fact, as I watched the scene, the first thing that popped into my mind was “Oh my, there have been like six times in the last two weeks that I’ve wanted to do exactly that.”

Okay, so I probably wouldn’t leave my kids on the side of the street to fend for themselves (they aren’t as old as Christina’s kids on Parenthood), but sometimes I feel like everyone is wanting, wanting, wanting things from me… I need a cup of water, the baby’s hungry, I need more Nutella on my toast because I licked it all off, find my sparkle silver boots because the black boots won’t do, Clean my Yoda underdrawers because the Yoda underdrawers are the ONLY ones that I will wear to school,  do the dishes, wash the laundry, get the baby up from his nap, drive me to Football, get me a snack, turn on the TV because I’m scared of the beeping noise it makes when I turn it on… and the list goes on.

Aside from leaving our kids on the side of the road, how can we deal?  How can we be joyful as mothers without losing our cool and doing something crazy?  I don’t know the answer… and I’m starting to discover that as a blogger, I often have more questions than answers… but at the very least, I’d love to hear from you and get a conversation started around joyful motherhood.

So, your turn:  How do you stay joyful in motherhood when your days and your tasks are anything but joyful?

P.S.  Last chance to win a $25 gift card to The Little Card Company!  Click here to enter!

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*WINNER* Congrats to Paige! I’ll send your $25 gift card soon. *WINNER*

Last year's family pic

1.  I love sending cards.

2.  I love GETTING cards (hint, hint to those of you who have adorable children and pets that you want to show off this Christmas).

3.  I hate tacky, kitschy cards.

4.  It took me 4 and a half hours to SELECT my Christmas cards last year because I’m picky.  And I wanted cards that were cute, Christ-centered, stylish AND weren’t tacky OR kitschy.  Is that too much to ask?!

Anyway, last June, I discovered The Little Card Company.  It’s a Christian company run by Christian moms– and they have hundreds of really cool, artist-designed cards for all occasions that have Christian messages.  AND, nothing is tacky or kitschy… so that right there tells you why I’m such a big fan.  Anyway, since I now know WHERE I’m ordering my cards from, and since it took me sooo long to pick the perfect cards last year, I thought I’d have a little fun this year and let YOU help me choose.  And, to make it even more fun, I thought I’d do a little giveaway to make the choosing even more fun for y’all.

So, here are my six favorite Christmas card choices for this year.   Tell me your favorite one in the comments and you’ll be entered to win a $25 gift certificate for Christmas cards from The Little Card Company.  Then, make sure to check back during the week of Thanksgiving to see which cards I chose and to see a picture of my final card.

Card #1:  Little Angel



Card #2:  Quiet Snowfall


Card #3: White Snowfall


Card #4: Peaceful Snowfall


Card #5: Red Ribbon

Card #6: Shine Brightly

So, press reply and vote!  One responder will be chosen at random on Nov. 10th and will win a $25 gift card to order their own Christmas cards from The Little Card Company.  I’ll post the winning card during the week of Thanksgiving.

 



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Part of me doesn’t want my baby to start sleeping through the night.

Of course, there’s the part of me who’s sick of dragging myself out of bed every morning at 2 am (and 4 am…. And 5 am…) to feed the baby who simply won’t take milk from anyone but Mommy… but there’s part of me that savors the sound of crying on the monitor.

Now, before you dismiss me as crazy, let me explain.

You see, Will is my last baby.  Definitely my last.  Technically, Kate, my second was my last for three years, but this time I mean it.  I am not having any more.  And, because of that, these baby days are passing all too fast.  With my other two, I prayed that they’d start sleeping through the night… and cheered them on as they learned to sit, crawl and walk.  But with Will, I’m doing the opposite.  I’m praying he stays my baby just a little while longer.

So, for now, I’m savoring those middle-of-the-night wake-up calls.

I’m stroking his little head, sleepily rubbing his face and praying for this sweet and unexpected blessing that God has bestowed on me.

Because all too soon, my midnight wake-up calls will be over.

Question for you: What part of your life right now are you savoring?

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